{"id":1185,"date":"2018-12-03T19:50:28","date_gmt":"2018-12-04T00:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/dremadeoraich\/?p=1185"},"modified":"2018-12-03T19:50:28","modified_gmt":"2018-12-04T00:50:28","slug":"no-gain-no-shame-when-life-gets-in-the-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2018\/12\/03\/no-gain-no-shame-when-life-gets-in-the-way\/","title":{"rendered":"No Gain, No Shame: When Life Gets in the Way"},"content":{"rendered":"<body><p><\/p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1186\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2018\/12\/03\/no-gain-no-shame-when-life-gets-in-the-way\/time-flies-2470848_1920\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?fit=1920%2C1535&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1920,1535\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"time-flies-2470848_1920\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?fit=300%2C240&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?fit=640%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignleft size-large wp-image-1186\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?resize=640%2C512&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"512\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?resize=1024%2C819&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?resize=300%2C240&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?resize=768%2C614&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/nanowrimo.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">NaNoWriMo<\/a> always surprises me. Every Fall, it hovers around the corner like one of our kittens, furry butt wiggling in preparation for The Pounce and, the minute November 1 arrives, it attacks my conscience. I always want to be a NaNoWriMo writer. I\u2019ve occasionally planned to participate. It just never works out.\n<p>Bad Drema. No cookie.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s just me. I know I\u2019m not the only writer who has a busy life outside my writing projects, but since 2018 opened its doors, I\u2019ve jumped in with both feet to multiple twitter pitch parties. I submitted to Pitch Wars. I joined <a href=\"http:\/\/critters.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Critters<\/a>, where I am an active critique participant. I\u2019ve taken at least three in-depth classes at <a href=\"http:\/\/the-muse.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Muse Center<\/a>, all of which called for critiquing of other writers\u2019 works, and critiqued a full novel for a fellow Critter.<\/p>\n<p>By the time November came around, I didn\u2019t have a massive enough project to tackle for NaNoWriMo to seem doable. Yes, there is the third book in <em>The Founder\u2019s Seed<\/em> arc. I\u2019ve outlined it, but until book one is picked up (or self-published), and the second one is closer to that end, book three shall remain in the planning stage.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ve been idle. Oh no. This year, I\u2019ve completed another set of revisions on TFS book one, and completed a first draft on book two, which came in at just a smidge over 100K words. I\u2019ve written four new short stories, revised six others, and started three more. That feels like a lot, to me. I just didn\u2019t do it all in thirty days. (Hey, we can\u2019t all be <a href=\"https:\/\/brandonsanderson.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Brandon Sanderson<\/a>.) I\u2019m not terribly effective when it comes to time-management, so I write when\/where I can, and don\u2019t much care what the calendar says.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. I love the idea of NaNoWriMo, and gleefully cheer on all those who participate. Truth be told, I\u2019d love to take it on in 2019 (or 2020). There may yet be a year for that but, apparently for me, this is not the one.<\/p>\n<p>In truth, I\u2019ve been in something of a slump since the middle of September. Work and kittens and an assortment of Life Challenges have all gotten between me and my keyboard. But I suppose that happens to us all, on occasion. The trick is not to let it get you down. I keep telling myself this. So far, it\u2019s working.<\/p>\n<p>Did you participate in NaNoWriMo? If so, <strong>Yay You<\/strong>! What was your final tally for the whole month? Share your NaNo stories here \u2026 that way I can at least celebrate vicariously through your success!<\/p>\n<p>Time Flies photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/en\/users\/Angeleses-4701261\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Angeleses<\/a><\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NaNoWriMo always surprises me. Every Fall, it hovers around the corner like one of our kittens, furry butt wiggling in preparation for The Pounce and, the minute November 1 arrives, it attacks my conscience. I always want to be a NaNoWriMo writer. I\u2019ve occasionally planned to participate. It just never works out. Bad Drema. No&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1186,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-posts","category-on-writing"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/time-flies-2470848_1920.jpg?fit=1920%2C1535&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8n0kX-j7","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2145,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2020\/11\/08\/lessons-from-a-late-night-e-mail\/","url_meta":{"origin":1185,"position":0},"title":"Lessons From a Late-Night E-mail","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"November 8, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Last year during 2019's NaNoWriMo (https:\/\/nanowrimo.org) I penned an entire medical sci-fi\/ecofiction manuscript\u2014Enthe\u00f3phage\u2014in thirty-seven days. 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Holy Continuity, Batman! Where does the time go? In my defense, I\u2019ll say that this has been the busiest few months I\u2019ve had for quite some time! 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