{"id":609,"date":"2018-02-26T20:49:57","date_gmt":"2018-02-27T01:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/dremadeoraich\/?p=609"},"modified":"2018-02-26T20:49:57","modified_gmt":"2018-02-27T01:49:57","slug":"sign-up-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2018\/02\/26\/sign-up-here\/","title":{"rendered":"Sign (Up) Here"},"content":{"rendered":"<body><p>Ever since I began writing, I wished for a local writers group. The only ones I\u2019d found were in Virginia Beach, maybe half an hour from our flat during off-rush-hour traffic. Not all that bad, you might think. But if I was going to take a few hours away from my keyboard, I didn\u2019t want one of them to be spent in my car. I\u2019d travelled to the beach a couple of times for a class or a Show-and-Grow reading opportunity through <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hamptonroadswriters.org\/\">Hampton Roads Writers<\/a>, but I <em>really<\/em> pined for a closer, more convenient Norfolk group.<\/p>\n<p>A year or two ago, I took a fiction class at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.the-muse.org\/\">The Muse Writers\u2019 Center<\/a> and while there, a classmate told me about her writer\u2019s group that met right there at The Muse. I expressed interest, and she promised to ask if they were open to another member. I waited a while, and finally got added to their e-mail list. I can\u2019t tell you how excited I was, except\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2026they disbanded about that same time. I never got the chance to meet with them.<\/p>\n<p>Fast forward to last summer, another class at The Muse. There I met another classmate who did <em>not<\/em> mention a group, but we did hit it off. We e-mailed back and forth a few times. I played beta-reader for one of his short stories. He returned the favor for one of mine. All the while, we chatted about how fine it would be to have that elusive Norfolk writers\u2019 group, especially one focused on science fiction\/fantasy\/horror, the whole Spec Fic thing (though I\u2019m not sure what the definitive description of that genre might be; depends on who you ask, and when, as to what it is).<\/p>\n<p>A month or so ago, he messaged me on Facebook to see if I was still interested. Of <em>course<\/em> I am. He ran a couple of ideas past me for feedback, then got permission from The Muse to meet in their space and posted an invitation on their Facebook page.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently he and I are not the only ones looking for a Norfolk group. He got a number of positive responses, and we set up our first meeting based on the date and time available to the largest number of people.<\/p>\n<p>I must say I was very encouraged by our first meeting. Nine people showed up (we expected eleven), each of whom provided eager feedback. John (our administrator and organizer) had prepared some notes and suggestions for what we might bring to or expect to take away from this group. He\u2019d done his homework and promised to put all the notes on a Facebook page for our group, where we can all refer back to find or suggest resources.<\/p>\n<p>So we\u2019re off to a good start.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s encouraging to find a group of like-minded folk to learn from and to share with, people who understand the genre and its tropes and glories, who get as excited as I do about such geeky stuff. They are all in the same boat as me when it comes to making word counts and deadlines, finding agents while avoiding the scam artists, and making their work the very best it can be even when sometimes all we really want to do is trash the whole darn thing and just start over. At one point, I commented that it was going to be awesome to have others to talk to who would know whereof I speak, and that most of my \u201cnormal\u201d friends either got tired of hearing me go on and on about my writing (isn\u2019t that novel published <em>yet?<\/em>) or would give me these blank stares that told me they were composing a grocery list in their heads while I rambled. One of the group members stopped me and said, \u201cWait, you have <em>normal<\/em> friends???\u201d<\/p>\n<p>See? Writers know.<\/p>\n<p>So if you\u2019d love to have a writer\u2019s support group but despair of ever finding one, don\u2019t. They are out there. New ones are forming every day. Join the Facebook or other social media pages for your town\u2019s writing center(s) and watch their sites for announcements. And don\u2019t forget to <em>support<\/em> your local centers; they are there to serve you, but they depend on paying students and\/or donors\/members for their operating funds.<\/p>\n<p>As for me, I\u2019m sending a great big THANK YOU to John, our organizer, and to Michael at The Muse. I\u2019ve waited a long time for this. I can\u2019t wait to get started.<\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since I began writing, I wished for a local writers group. The only ones I\u2019d found were in Virginia Beach, maybe half an hour from our flat during off-rush-hour traffic. Not all that bad, you might think. But if I was going to take a few hours away from my keyboard, I didn\u2019t want&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-posts","category-on-writing"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8n0kX-9P","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":441,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2017\/11\/06\/critical-mass\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":0},"title":"Critical Mass","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"November 6, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"I wrote about critiquing once before (Like Minds and Other Sounding Boards, May 22, 2017), and said at the time that it is hard to sit and listen to people critique your baby, the words you\u2019ve sweat and bled over. Now I\u2019m back on that topic to change my tune.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1264,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2019\/01\/21\/five-tips-to-nail-your-public-reading\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":1},"title":"Five Tips to Nail Your Public Reading","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"January 21, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"One thing I see a lot of in our local writing community is public readings, where a writer stands before an audience and reads a segment of their work. If you\u2019re a writer, but you\u2019ve never attended a public reading, you should consider it. It\u2019s a great way to get\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ApproachTheMic.jpg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ApproachTheMic.jpg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ApproachTheMic.jpg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ApproachTheMic.jpg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ApproachTheMic.jpg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=1050%2C600 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":498,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2017\/12\/18\/swimming-with-the-snarks\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":2},"title":"Swimming with the Snarks","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"December 18, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"A couple of months ago, I joined a FaceBook writers group with thousands of members. I hoped to find helpful input, guidance and handy tips from others in the biz. What I got instead was drama. Every post I saw, no matter how innocuous or innocent the question, drew dozens\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":1049,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/17\/the-blissful-pen-confessions-of-people-who-write\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":3},"title":"The Blissful Pen: Confessions of People Who Write","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"September 17, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Back in the early 80s I took a college class taught by award-winning writer Robert P. Arthur. I remember Bob as a big guy, not just in a physical sense with his tall, broad-shouldered self, but with his overall presence. He filled a room, that man. He expected\u2014and inspired\u2014a lot\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Faery.jpg?fit=800%2C1200&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Faery.jpg?fit=800%2C1200&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Faery.jpg?fit=800%2C1200&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Faery.jpg?fit=800%2C1200&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":1690,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/03\/feeding-the-beast\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":4},"title":"Feeding the Beast","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"February 3, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"We\u2019re well into 2020 now, and the writing scene is as frenetic as ever. Congratulations to my writing pals from Twitter and Facebook who have had debut novels come out in the last year, or who\u2019ve been picked up for publication sometime in the coming months! All that hard work\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woodstock-art-568933_1920.jpg?fit=1200%2C1002&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woodstock-art-568933_1920.jpg?fit=1200%2C1002&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woodstock-art-568933_1920.jpg?fit=1200%2C1002&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woodstock-art-568933_1920.jpg?fit=1200%2C1002&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/woodstock-art-568933_1920.jpg?fit=1200%2C1002&ssl=1&resize=1050%2C600 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":345,"url":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/2017\/09\/18\/finding-my-niche\/","url_meta":{"origin":609,"position":5},"title":"Finding My Niche","author":"DremaDeoraich","date":"September 18, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Last week I attended the 9th Annual Hampton Roads Writers Conference. It was my fifth year at that event, where I always learn something new. This year, I finally realized I\u2019m not the only one who feels awkward at those sorts of things. Oh I\u2019ve done large events plenty of\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Blog Posts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Blog Posts","link":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/category\/blog-posts\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=609"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/609\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":610,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/609\/revisions\/610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dremadeoraich.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}